As a little aside to the sentiment, I'd like to share a perspective.
When disagreements happen, especially on the internet where we're mostly faceless, it's all too easy to reduce a human being to the embodiment of we find disagreeable. What someone says and even does, is still separate from who they are. I don't disagree with people, I disagree with ideas they may have. I don't hate people, I hate sentiments that are harmful and lead to violence.
For example, I think Anita frames her arguments in a dishonest and destructive way that leads to more harm than good. But I have absolutely no problem with Ms. Sarkeesian herself. Firstly, I don't know her and probably never will, so to make any character judgments would be idiotic. But moreover, she's just a person like me and everybody else. She has her thoughts, and I have mine. And while I will always try to voice what I think is right, and challenge what I think is wrong, none of that ever has to do with who she is as a person.
It's inherently human to be tribal. MS vs. Sony, East vs. West, America vs. whoever, it unfortunately comes naturally to all of us. So when we encounter an idea we don't like, it's exceedingly easy to categorize a human being as "the enemy". SJWs vs. GamerGaters, all. But if we can only remember that crucial distinction, that people are distinct separate beings from their ideas, we can productively engage with those who feel differently than us, while still increasing unity as a whole.
Enter into every interaction with love and respect, and you can't go wrong.
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